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Aqua - July 6, 2008 12:56 PM (GMT)
Okay, well, I just need to get this off my chest... Lemme start this off with a "This sucks...."

Reason why?

Well... At the beginning of last school year in High School (My Junior year), I met this girl. I thought she looked really cute, and I noticed that she liked to draw. So I started hanging out with her. But me being really shy and nervous to talk to girls I find cute, didn't actually start hanging out with her until early/late November. So I start hanging out with her, and I grow to really really like her, and I wanna ask her out.

Again, I'm incredibly shy, and I can't do that myself, and it drives my best friend crazy and he asks her for me back in January. She says yes, so we started dating. Now, about four months later, she tells me she might be moving over the summer, but she doesn't know if she is or not yet. So I put that thought in the back of my mind for the rest of the school year, hoping that she doesn't move somewhere far away.

Summer came, and my worst fear ended up coming true; her family decided to move to Central America. I spent the first couple of weeks of the Summer quite depressed about it, and I still kinda am, for obvious reasons; I may or may not ever see this girl again. It depends, because she said she'd try to come back and visit during long holidays (Since she has family here in Illinois). I hang out with her as much as I can obviously, but next week I won't be able to anymore.... I was looking forward to sharing many of the same classes our senior year too, as we had decided to take Sociology, Geology, Psychology of Life, and PC Repair classes together.

Gah, I'm sorry. I had to get this off my chest... I've obviously been depressed about it, and I can't help but hate my luck for this kind of thing. It figures I meet a girl I really like for the first time in years, and she's moving elsewhere, with the possibility of us never seeing each other again...

I'm really sorry... I'll try to get back to my usual not depressed - not ranting self now ;_; Don't reply unless you feel the need to do so.

Shadow - July 6, 2008 02:40 PM (GMT)
Aww, that stinks. =/ You could still keep in touch with her, though. You could write to her, either through normal mail or email, and depending on how far away she's moving, you could call her. And also depending on how far away she's moving, you guys could visit each other once in a while... hope everything works out for you~

Avielus - July 6, 2008 05:36 PM (GMT)
Wow dude... that SUCKS. That's a lot worse than when my best friend for 4 years moved away(I think)... But the good thing is, I'm going to visit him soon.

I think you'll probably get a few chances to be together again, and if you're can wait for a year or two, there's always college.

Aqua - July 6, 2008 10:11 PM (GMT)
Aww, yeah, I know what it's like to have your best friend move away too. My best friend I met back in sixth grade had to move to South Carolina to live with his mom for the single dumbest reason: his dad was too lazy to take care of him.
He's coming to visit in a few weeks, and that makes me happy =3

Well, yeah, I'll hopefully get to see her in college. At the very least, I'll still get to see her during holiday breaks and whatnot (I think the next time she'd be coming to visit was for Christmas, so I'll have a whole 2 weeks to spend with her =D). We still do have means of communication at the very least as well. I can't call her except on weekends, but we still can talk to each other over YIM, and we can text each other too ^^

October - July 8, 2008 12:41 PM (GMT)
That's terribly unfortunate. Just be grateful for what time you did spend with her. No really, I'm sorry for you, you must have really loved her. I don't know what you can do. You're both out of school - you could try and visit her if you can drive? I've got no solution, I haven't been in the situation, but I really know where you're coming from, even if I don't feel it as strong as you obviously do. That's really bad, I can only say that I hope it all works out for you.

IceMasterX - July 8, 2008 02:52 PM (GMT)
That's horrible! I'd hate for that to happen. Most of my friends are going to a different school next year than me, but this is much different. You just have to cherish the time you spend with her, and try not to waste any. ^^

And, do you guys have IMs?

Avielus - July 9, 2008 11:53 AM (GMT)
Yes, he said that they had YIM in the post above mine ;P

Aqua - July 10, 2008 01:49 AM (GMT)
Yeah, I've got YIM. We also txt each other frequently too^^

and then there's also the fact that we do some online gaming together too on occasion ^^ I don't have my wi-fi for my Wii set up yet, but when she does, we're gonna add each other in Mario Kart, and Brawl ^^




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